it's not that rural. small town. you can go in my place if you
want. my sis and BIL escaped coz she has a firm retreat - sun and
beach; plus she rubbed it in by saying: thank you for taking on the
burden for the rest of us.
I only step into bolehland for diving these days. 
Oh, so its something they foisted on you. Gee, it sure is nice
to have family sometimes eh